lately i have been very interested in the difference between needing vs. wanting. i have been observing the various ways this concept affects people's lives. when you need something...you hold no power. you need to breathe to stay alive...you can’t negotiate that, there are no choices. when it comes to wanting/needing things like success, love or material possessions....i think it is beautiful to only want them. it showcases that your efforts are conscious and purposeful. with matters of the heart, i think its best to simply want someone. there is a certain respect given when someone makes the choice to be with you rather then acting from fear of deprivation.